Showing posts with label Blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Blogging. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Mustard Seed Shavings

When Bible Reading Fellowship (BRF) published my book for new Christians and seekers in 2012 they liked the title of the blog at that time and asked if we could use it as the book title. I agreed.

Now, after an unspectacular sales history, the book has been remaindered. They are gentler than that on the BRF web-site and describe it as 'currently out of print', although when I first attempted that sentence it came out as 'currently out of pint' which is more regularly true. I guess if you loved the book enough to cough up for a further print-run they would see you. The follow-up volume is still available. Click on the side-bar image to buy.

And if you want a copy of Mustard Seed Shavings I have bought a few which can be yours for £5 plus postage

Anyway, enough of this nonsense. I'm having my blog title back. It feels good to have it home after a disappointing journey.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Not everything the writer writes is necessarily what he thought yesterday

Odd title. It's a quote from a comment on a post a while back.

I have taken a few moments to look back over some of my writing as this blog celebrates its tenth anniversary this year.

We all move on. I have chronicled a few battles with life and faith. I have written of my inner world using a character called Big Blogger with whom I have Socratic dialogues (I flatter myself). I have worried aloud about whether my humour errs on the side of insensitivity. I have shared my Christmas non-news letters. I have added other bits of biography, life-skills, training ideas, theological meanderings, comments on the issues of the day and have by-and-large not been too worried about the visitor numbers.

I have shared sermons, thoughts for the day and old, unpublished articles. I have advertised forthcoming events. I have had three name changes - Mustard Seed Shavings became The Water Walkers Apprentice and is now just eponymous.

I have promoted three books and moved house.

West Brom have been relegated twice and promoted three times.

I have catalogued my CD collection and am doing the same with my quote books.

The labels on the side bar still work and you can see how my ideas have changed and moved on in ten years.

I have enjoyed the occasional dialogues through the comments box, although these discussions seem far more likely to happen on Twitter or Facebook these days. My disappointment at rude comments from the anonymous remains.

The main point of all this is, I think, a personal catharsis. I work out what I feel and think by writing and engaging in conversation afterwards.

So although I have been relatively quiet recently (my writing has found other forums) I want to record my gratitude for about the 100 of you a time who read each post and the others who take a feed and I don't get to count. It's been a blast. Thanks for being there.

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Virus?

I've heard from a couple of folk about a 'trojan' warning my site is generating. I am pretty sure it is a problem with the virus detection software and not the site. There have been a few problems high-lighted between Google, Blogspot, Windows and Outlook, none of which are viruses. In order to isolate the specific problem please, if you have issues, leave a comment, tweet or send an email so I can report it accurately. Thanks.

Friday, March 18, 2011

A Bit of a Clean Up

As promised some months ago I am retiring off the blog name Mustard Seed Shavings. My book of that title is published today. What do you mean you didn't know? Click on the sidebar link at once to buy two copies (one to give to a seeking friend). It's relatively cheap, short, easy to read and contains a joke.

Thanks for the cards and champagne Mrs Mustard. She's a scream. What shall I call her now?

So I pondered for a while and chatted to a few people. One day I will call something The Third Thing I Thought Of which is currently my favourite title for anything. I explained why here. But for the next phase of its life I wanted another metaphor for someone grasping for the raw stuff of faith in a material world.

Please welcome the new look and strapline with your usual aplomb.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Keeping up with the News

I find it increasingly difficult to keep up with all the stuff in the new social media network and blogosphere but this morning, loaded and working in less than ten minutes, I came across the brilliant paper.li. All my interests and contacts are extracted from my twitter account and links and then displayed in newspaper form, updated daily as The Steve Tilley Daily. Amazing, time-saving and fun. A tripple whammy of gorgeousness (as I think Mr Gnome might put it).

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

How Many?

I once said to a group of people whilst responding to their feedback in a plenary session, 'I have two things to say in response to that, no make that three.'

The prophet Bob heckled, 'Why not hedge your bets and go for six; you can always stop short and we'll all be pleased.'

I learned always to say, 'I have a number of responses' from then on.

I thought of this again recently as I have seen a number of tweets, articles and posts of the 'x things right/wrong with [thing]' type.

7 habits of highly effective people
10 commandments of management
4 reasons for a dysfunctional team
6 steps to improve your prayer life

Maybe I follow too many Southern Baptist pastors. Still, I feel sure that these posts are of the blunderbuss (a gun that fires lots of small shot, American chums) type. Everything the person knows about the subject is fired against a wall and then the hits are counted. Highly effective people have way more than seven good habits. Probably, ooh, 342. There is only one commandment of management; 'How can I help you do your job better?' It takes real skill to work out precisely how many ways there could be to make a team dysfunctional. At the last count I'd reached 427 but teams amaze me again and again with their ability to recover from seeming dysfunctionality. You can't improve your prayer life. That's trying to improve God. You either have one or you don't. Live with it.

See what I mean. So, 4 top tips for reading blogs:

1. Be slow to take offence; it was probably a joke
2. If you don't like the post there will be another one along in a bit
3. Join in. Comment, don't lurk
4. Share if you like it
5. Damn

1 top tip for suggesting a specific number of things that are right/wrong:

1. Don't

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Christian Bloggers

Excellent post by Will Mancini on getting a focus for your blog. Essential reading for all who seek after truth and tend to be too self-deprecating (so of course I've read it).

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

The Noughties

Edward Stourton's programme on Radio 4 this morning, the first in a series looking back at the last decade, was very interesting. Today he focused on the internet. Catch it on listen again or iplayer if you can.

One contributor offered the wonderful thought that many people, who had previously found it takes ages to get into journalism using the submission and rejection method, had now had their incompetence fast-tracked, through blogging. They blog; no-one cares. QED. Of course the opposite is true. Some new writers have emerged through this medium. Fewer though.

If you ever thought that writing every day was easy then start a blog. It is amazing how many people I have encountered online who have posted regularly for a few weeks or months and then disappeared.

It is also notable how many people who can't write particularly well, have valuable things to share. Their insights are better than their grammar but the blogosphere doesn't really mind. We want to learn from everyone.

Blogs. A great thing about the noughties.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Influences

David Keen has tagged me. I don't normally respond to tags or tag others but he did it so nicely and described me as an influence on his blog. Brilliant that you influence someone to start a blog and then they go off and do it so much better than you. It helps me to get in touch with my inner trainer.

So he has posted here about blogs who have influenced him and invites us to go and do likewise.

So my thanks go to Seb, who put me on to blogging in the first place but who has long since disappeared from my circle. One of the first blogs I found was Jonny Baker's. It's a hub of links to emerging church, events, photography (top class) and music with regular ideas for worship events and activities called worship tricks. I still call in a lot. Thanks.

Bishop Alan posts regularly from the higher echelons of Anglicanism. He makes good use of photographs and images to add to his well-written text. Expect comments on the church and the general news with Christian insights. Updated very regularly.

Simon, at Life, the Universe and Everything doesn't like religious faith (not sure I like the adjective 'religious' either) and says so. I visit his blog to find out what the opposition are saying and we've commented on each other's posts over the years. Possibly a sense of grudging respect might describe our relationship. I've enjoyed the battle of wits.

So, if any of you three read this then feel free to pay it forward.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Labels

I have almost finished the epic task of labelling nearly 2,000 posts. If you are a new blogger please learn from this and do it from the beginning. On September 10th I said the task would take me three weeks and it turns out to have been double that.

I think I have become clearer in my use of labels as I have worked through the task so some of my early efforts might have had too specific a label, later ones I may have ignored some more appropriate possibilities. I'll tweak the system as I go but it gives a general idea of what sort of things I write about.

Click on a label and all the posts under that heading will be appear in chronological order.

Interesting that my key labels have been, in current order:

Church (which is, after all, my work)
Biography (by which I mean posts that tell you more about me than any other subject)
Life Skills (things worth learning or mistakes best not making - call it 'wisdom')
Music
Theology
Language
Bible
Politics
Book review
Football
Food
Family

I think this list does express my interests in about the right order. My family will all understand that coming 12th says nothing about what they mean to me.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Happy Birthday

Last weekend was the tenth anniversary of blogger. I've only been around for six of those but it has felt like a good part of my life so many happy returns to it.

Initially, once it gathered pace, blogs were the subject of ridicule from the press and other media. All that poor writing which will never replace our proper journalism and diarying, they seemed to say. Now all good journalists seem to have a blog as well, accepting that they can do some things better in this forum than on their paper's website or in print.

There is bad writing. Just like fashion is faster than architecture, because it is easier to mirror or direct a changing culture with cloth than concrete, blogs are faster than pieces that need to be sub-edited. You can remove errors from weblogs. The print media has to apologise. Anyway all writers occasionally put disappointing writing out there. Your mojo can go awol. The trick, imho, is to keep the standard of average posts reasonably high, so you don't lose readers, and sometimes to excel. Well you'd tell me if it went wrong wouldn't you? I know you would. I watch the feedjit stats. I read the comments.

I also, and don't tell too many folk, have a friendly editor who emails me, rather than comments, if I've blooped. No names, but backstairs staff are appreciated.

Blogging is cathartic for those of us who like writing whether anyone reads or not. The existence of a small posse of followers, and a wider group locally who tell me what they think of what I said, makes it a useful exercise in communication, information and vulnerability. Judging by the way the labels exercise is proceeding (not even half way through yet) it also appears to be my lot to try and be funny relatively often. Reading all six years has been OK. I've been surprised how few howlers there are and some of the writing has made me pleased I did it. Not that sentence but you can't win 'em all. Another blog thing is that you tend to plough on rather than correct. Most of the good writing started somewhere else first.

The critics soon gave up slagging blogs and moved to Facebook, which also took over the world and now they write articles saying 'Why on earth does anyone Tweet?' Whatever next? Well whatever does come next you can guarantee that the knee-jerk will be to rubbish it and then, like the wasp that I watched a spider wrap then consume yesterday, way to go spidey, it will become part of the system.

Happy birthday blogger. And thanks, a long time ago, to Seb Apostol, who told me about it. He was an early adopter but left when something else became cooler.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Blogging Lessons

Going back over the history of my blog and inserting labels is demanding but I'm biting it off at the rate of about 100 a day, so it will take less than three weeks to finish. One thing I've noticed, and I apologise to those of you who have been with me for a long time, is my tendency to multi-subject posting. It will make searching much easier if, in future (and I may find I've already settled down a bit but I hadn't by 2005) I try to keep each post about one separate thing. My tendency to want to include a joke, if I can think of one, each time is going to make for over-use of the label 'funny.' Funny that.

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Bit of a Sort Out

Thanks for the nags. I've finally got round to changing the list of interesting blogs I visit. Scroll down the right-hand side-bar to read. The most recently updated are at the top.

I probably need a training session on how to do some fancier things with design. Anyone who wants to do that for me I'll cook them lunch.

Friday, July 31, 2009

New Media

'I can't see the point of new social media. How do you have time to do Facebook?'

A number of people have said that to me and I guess there is only one answer. If you want to do something badly enough you always find the time for it.

Last Wednesday an old friend noticed my Facebook status of 'going to London' and offered to meet me for a drink if I got there an hour early, which I did. We then spent a very happy 75 minutes in a conversation which began, 'So, how have the last 20 years been?' Brilliant.

A second thought. For those of us who love the content of inter-action, as compared to the emotion of it, a conversation through social media is perfect. A relationship is reduced to content alone and as far as I am concerned that is fine. In fact I can build up a content-based relationship to the point where I fancy I might like to meet the other person but to have to do emotional engagement at too early a stage is not my preference.

Friday, January 30, 2009

Come in, sit down

Let's have a a bit of a chat. Pull up a chair. Not that one it's broken. That's better. Thing is, you're just not pulling your weight. I know, I know, you've been busy. But how on earth do you expect me to provide pithy input that will kick start your cerebral metabolism if you don't give me some raw materials?

So you need to help. You used to be so good. Comments about posts that led to more posts that led to long discussions about life the universe and everything, even at one stage attracting the interest of a blog called Life, the Universe and Everything.

At the moment my head is full of quite a lot of stuff I can't tell you without having to swear you to secrecy. I tried swearing the internet to secrecy once. Not easy but I got off with a fine.

So here's the deal. It's your turn. Please post suggestions of topics from the minefield in which you'd like MSS to stomp and I'll do my best. Ask embarrassing questions. Make me entertain you. And on that note, a tale to end...

At St John's, Nottingham the service books were constantly being removed from the chapel by students preparing future acts of corporate worship. The number of books dwindled and, despite an amnesty, eventually a reprint was necessary.

The reprinted copy had something like this text at the front. 'This book belongs in the Chapel of St John's College, Nottingham. If you find it anywhere else please feel free to ask embarrassing questions.'

Finding a copy of the book in the college chaplain's study, it is said that one student asked the Chaplain, now the Bishop of Down and Dromore, 'Harold. What colour are your underpants?'

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Nagging

In my last parish we had a little mantra at the end of staff meetings where we used to ask each other awkward questions. 'Have you booked any work appointments for your day off?' That was what one of my clergy colleagues wanted to hear so he had to confess if he had. Mine was, 'Have you done your filing?'

What is it with flipping filing? A long time ago I dispensed with a filing tray or basket because then you throw things in that rather than putting them away properly. It's OK if you have a filing clerk (for eight years of my working life I did) but not otherwise. The best solution to the problem is to put each finished-with piece of paper away in the right place immediately you have finished with it. I know this. By and large I do it.

Then, just before Christmas, I was busy and left a piece of paper on top of the filing cabinet before rushing off to some crucial parish business such as a drinks party, instead of putting it away. Next time I had a piece of paper to put away I put it on top of the other one, rather than away, and a pile commenced which, yesterday took me two hours to file. So annoying. I'm the annoyed one and the person I'm annoyed with is me.

Now, there's an associated admin problem you can help me with. The side bars, links and archives of this blog are out of date. I need to spend some time fixing them. If you leave a comment over the next few weeks do give me a bit of a nag. Many thanks.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Anonymity

You don't take dietary advice off a fat lass.

When you get feedback you have to weigh it. For instance someone who always has questionable judgement is not worth listening to if they say 'You did a good job.' You can ignore the negative vibes too. Likewise someone who is always open and honest with you, regularly being encouraging, is worth paying attention to if they suggest you goofed.

I allow anonymous comments on this blog and welcome them. I appreciate that sometimes it is safer to stay behind the sofa. But I won't take anonymous advice. Dangerous habit to get into. Frankly, I don't know if you are worth listening to.

So when I read this...

Try apologising to anyone you have wronged or hurt, correct your typos . . .then remember tomorrow is another day and just get on with life. You're OK.

...a comment on a recent post, I'm sorry my friend (or perhaps enemy, who knows?) I am afraid that without a name it is useless.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Grapevine Article on Blogging

If you find your way here from Grapevine (Bath and Wells monthly Diocesan Newspaper) then you are welcome. If you are interested, the article David Keen and I wrote follows. It didn't appear in quite such coherent form in the newspaper.

Thoughts on Blogging

Blogging vicars sounds like an expletive. But wait. ‘Blog’ is an abbreviation of web-log - a publicly-visible computer journal. Think captain’s log but online. But why would anyone want to share their diary with the world?

Whilst there are things best left private, many church folk use blogs to share news and discuss ideas.

We are enthusiastic bloggers. David’s blog is a mixture of missional thinking, statistics and thoughts about life, leadership and Doctor Who.

Steve’s is more whimsical and tries to be amusing (if offended you were probably meant to laugh). He manages two other blogs, one for his church and one to support Local Fresh Expressions.

Instead of being confined to a few minutes on a Sunday, a blog enables you to comment on events as they happen. For some, the blog has become the new ‘vicars letter’.

Other churches use blogs for church notices, group study notes or updates for prayer – as the Bishop of Bristol did after he and his wife had a serious car accident.

Putting your thoughts in a blog is a way to get an instant reaction. If you are planning on doing something new there will be someone who has done it before and learnt lessons.

There are blogging politicians, newspaper blogs, radio blogs and TV show blogs. Making a comment on an event has never been easier and ‘from the blogs’ often becomes a magazine article in itself.

You can measure how many people visit your site and where they are from. Our current visitors are from as far away as Argentina, Pakistan, Thailand, Mecca and Lesotho.

Every blog will have links to others. It’s a crazy, joined-up world. Why not surf around?

David Keen and Steve Tilley

Thursday, April 19, 2007

Rules and Thinking

My first name is James. All first born male Tilleys for as long back as we can remember have been named, but not called, James. My parents wanted to call me Steve so they gave me the second name Stephen which they then permanently abbreviated. Only a very few people (see posts passim) get to call me Stephen and live with the look it causes. Stephen somehow isn't me.

Anyway it's the rules and we knew the rules when we decided that our first born male would have the name James but we'd put it second. Not for him the problem of being called an unknown name in the doctors or dentists, the annoying first initial preventing his being found in the phone book or the letters from the bank trying to be chummy but saying 'Dear James.' (Although when someone phones and asks to speak to James Tilley it is a good alert that it will probably be a sales pitch.)

So I know lots of rules and choose to break them. I may well write a sixteen syllable haiku just for the fun of it. Anyway:

To write a poem
In seventeen syllables
Is very diffic
(John Cooper Clarke)

Which is a long way round to my point but as it's a nice day why not let's stroll around the garden together first.

I have been nominated by Iain C as a 'thinking Blogger.' Iain's Random Reflections often give pause for thought and I visit his site a lot. I'm not just saying that because he nominated me. People know I wouldn't do that.

Now the thing is that I need to nominate five others, link back to the site that nominated me and ask them to do the same. First two fine, it was this post and my nominations will follow, but latter? Problem:

1. We'll run out of bloggers and over sensitive people will get increasingly sad they got picked last.
2. I hate this way of generating traffic. It seems very self-indulgent. I have no counter on my site and apart from the number of profile views (which I am not technical enough to know how to lose) have no idea about my traffic. Nor do I particularly care. I write because I like writing. Read if you like reading. Join me on the journey if you like. Mustard seed pickle with the cheese anyone?

So here is a list of five blogs that make me think. I have no idea if they've been nominated before and will not tell them the news. Many of them probably have clever stuff that tells them they've been linked to anyway. I know the first one does because he thanked me once:

Love you all. Follow the tips. Don't worry about acknowledging sources if the source was me.

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Trusting the Internet

Read an interesting piece in Sunday's Observer by Christine Odone about how difficult it had been to change an entry on Wikipedia. Apparently her biographer insisted she was born in Italy, which she wasn't. Or perhaps the other way round.

Anyway this blog deals with opinion not fact so find out the truth somewhere else. But how well should you trust the internet? Even its creator Tim Berners-Lee is now worried that there is more untruth than truth out there. I have used the web for research for a number of years now and offer these tips:

1. Multiple sources. Unless you are convinced a source is utterly reliable, seek confirmation from elsewhere. Be suspicious of any other source which has simply repeated words copied from your original site (or vice versa).

2. Check by email. Most sites have 'contact us' sections. Do so.

3. Check by phone and get a name. More time consuming but important if you need to be sure.

4. Acknowledge your source in your writing and any doubts you have.

5. Build up a 'feel', goodwill if you like, of sites which seem to consistently deliver what you need and badwill of those which regularly mislead you.

6. Treat each site like a person you are learning to trust. Your Mum told you not to talk to strangers but you do it all the time online. Build up trust slowly. I have met two people in person who I first encountered through the virtual world but they were both from the same area of professional interest as me. See who is faithful in small matters before giving them responsibility for large ones.

7. Don't libel. Writing untruths about people which damage their reputation can lead you to be sued. 'If in doubt, chuck it out' was the very poor motto of the insurance claims department I once worked at but a good one for writing articles.

Add more if you want to.