I've been a great fan of good leadership for a long time. I try to practice it. You will have to ask the led how it's going.
I have spent hours discussing the difference between leadership and management, mentoring and coaching, teaching and training. I've never thought through the difference between a leader and a boss so I like this post on The Practice of Leadership site by George Ambler, tweeted by Tony Morgan.
By the way I learned everything useful about leadership by being on a team, then running, a CYFA Venture for 27 years. If you don't know where to start then ask CPAS if they need any help on Ventures this year? If you are 14 - 18 go on one. It will change your life.